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30 Days of Pursuing Your Wife
Small, specific, every day
30 days · 10 min a dayLoveWith your wife
Start this plan in CadenceThirty days of small, specific ways to pursue your wife. Not grand gestures. The daily kind she'll actually notice.
What you'll need: ten minutes a day and attention.
The days
Day 1 in full. The rest open as you go.
- Day 1
Notice her
The taskTell your wife one specific thing you noticed and appreciated about her today.
Ephesians 5:25
- Tell your wife one specific thing you noticed and appreciated about her today.
- Don't announce that it's part of a plan.
- Notice how she responds.
- Day 2
Take something off her plate
- Day 3
Ask a real question
- Day 4
Write it down
- Day 5
Plan a date
- Day 6
Pray for her
- Day 7
Phone away
- Day 8
Rest
- Day 9
Remember
- Day 10
Her day
- Day 11
Go on the date
- Day 12
Thank her
- Day 13
Touch
- Day 14
Her friends
- Day 15
Ask her dreams
- Day 16
Apologize
- Day 17
Surprise
- Day 18
Speak well of her
- Day 19
Help her rest
- Day 20
Read together
- Day 21
Her love language
- Day 22
Do that thing
- Day 23
Plan the next date
- Day 24
Fix one thing
- Day 25
Listen longer
- Day 26
Celebrate her
- Day 27
Bless her
- Day 28
Ask how you're doing
- Day 29
Make a change
- Day 30
Look back together
Run it with your rhythm
While a plan runs, it replaces that pillar's daily task. It moves forward when you keep a day, not by the calendar, so a missed day never skips anything.
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